How do I communicate with WAW who is "checked out"

[AlexEN]

Cristarn,

You, at least, seemed to have some desire to at least believe your H could come around. My WAW believes that I have come around, but doesn't care. She's set on a divorce no matter the consequences. She says it was because she was just so "checked out" that no matter what changes I've made the damage has been done... Did you think or feel that way when you were WAW, or, more importantly, did you speak that way to your H?

Thanks,

AlexEN