well it will be a year in two weeks. I talkesd to a friend and she said next time I see my wife, and she brinks up the " I dont want to be married to you" speech out yet again I should ask her why she hasent D'ed me yet. I am trying a new tunnel I guess with that one because the passive, nice guy tunnel has just lead me to almost a year of sepperation were I give in to her demands and she doestnt ever call me unless she wants something. And now I hear she is living with a guy, who dosent even know she is married.