Hi glam- Sorry that your H is still not feeling well but you seem to be handling things beautifully. No pressure or guilt...only concern.
I have no idea how you do everything you do. You are a mom of two small kids (and one big one), you have a full time job, you workout, you spend time trying to work on your M, you cook nice meals...and on top of that you have your Christmas shopping almost done. You are amazing. You are really making the rest of us look bad!!!
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It was interesting today. H made some comment about how in the past I had NO trouble stating exactly how I felt. He said it never stopped you before.
I simply responded by saying to h that I realize that in the past I didnt take your feelings into consideration and that I was working on this area and that it was ok for me to state my opinion if you asked, but that just because I felt one way it didn't mean that I should expect h to conform to my ideals.
This is a 180 for me. I have always been very opinionated and have let h know how I felt, but now it doesn't seem to matter much that h's opinion differs from my own.
After I said that, h was silent. Hopefully he sees me changing in small ways.
I am sure your H sees your changes...and hopefully he will acknowledge them at least to himself. It is unfortunate that our MLC spouses don't always see what is right in front of them and instead ccan pick and choose what they want to see when they want to see it.
