I'm not sure. I just feel like that is what happened.
Actually, I can empathize. Sometimes, I feel that my W just used me until all of my bank accounts were dry. But I do believe that she had more feelings for me than that. What I truly believe is that she isn't willing to change her habits so that we can save up all that we have spent. So she's moved on to avoid the responsibility.
She feels entitled to something because she's beautiful.
I hope she finds it since she's left me and the kids to live our lives. I guess I'm fortunate; in that I have my kids with me.