I guess misery does really enjoy company. For some sick reason I feel better knowing my W isn't the only crazy person out there. The stuff she is doing is "normal" I guess and that makes me feel that there is hope.
I do have a really good lawyer. I started with a local one because at that point I thought it was just going to be a quick separation, etc and after reading DR I never thought it would get to the point of ever being final.
But since things progressed like they did... I have a new L and he has given me some great advice on how to proceed. I have pictures of them together, witnesses seeing them out during her time to care for S, etc. If her MIL and step-FIL weren't enabling her so much I think things would be much more difficult. Right now it is full-on fantasy lifestyle for W.
