X called this AM to talk with kids. I guess that means she missed them while she was gone to OM's parents.
She called later in the day (twice on cell, once at home) while I was at the gym with kids. She then called while was I was driving home. She asked if I was angry with her and said something about not wanting us to be angry with each other, especially during the holidays. She also made some comment about not wanting to hurt anyone (guilt?). I told her I wasn't angry. She wanted to see the kids today under the guise of giving me a "break." I later found out OM was out of pocket at the time.
In the course of the convo finances came up (there are some personal financial things I need to do) I asked her what was the delay in the financials being complete as I have provided everything required by her L (mistake?).
All mlc h*ll broke loose. She began a littanay of how it's my fault this has cost her so much money because I wouldn't use her L (meaning her being the only one with a L) and basically roll over and agree to anything and everything she has demanded. She went on to complain how much money I've cost her because I have stood in the way of her getting a D from me (she wanted me to falsify the date of our separation so we would be D'd more quickly).
I bit my tongue a couple of times but by the end of the rant I had concluded I'm wasting my time entertaining any notions of saving this M.
I also thought this will make going dimmer much easier.
Last edited by sleeper; 11/30/0802:53 AM.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13