Thanks Kel and Hope, Thanks for the experience Kel.
I think I can work through all of this and let it go when he decides he is ready to come home, because, this isn't how my H would act if he wasn't dealing with and having some huge amounts of pain. I never saw my H cry or even sniffle until his Mom died. I had wondered sometimes if he would cry if something happened to me, now I know better. He was worried about me just with the driving thing. I don't drive the mustang in bad weather.
I never had problems driving anything on ice and snow,then right before I got my mustang, we had a nasty ice/sleet stuff and I drive to work in the dark in the morning, before any of the salt trucks are out, I almost ended up in the ditch one time, did a 360 in my front wheel drive monte carlo. After that it bothers me to drive a non 4x4 when the roads are bad. I know it doesn't matter on ice what you are driving, but it still scared me. I had driven rear wheel drive trucks that had no weight and weren't 4x4 on everything when I was in college. So H gives me his truck to drive, last year he drove the mustang and didn't have any problems. If I only went 5 miles, it wouldn't bother me, but by the time I do 30 miles, I am stressed!
