And now if he contacts me the only thing I can think of to say is
"H I'm confused about what it is that you want. Are you able to be clearer about what it is that you want, in terms of how much contact you want to have with me and how much involvement you want to have in my life, and how much involvement you want me to have in yours?"
Do reckon this would blow it? The thing that I hate about that is it would tell me what I want to know, but it puts him in control of the speed of our R, and I dont get to say that I'm not even sure I want this relationship with him.
Lisa - do you think that there are is a secret group of CEO's hiding somewhere that will come looking for us soon?
BTW - 10th of December will be our 8th wedding anniversary
