Huge Hugs to you T and Lisa! Thank you so much for the time you take to write and guide me!

There was definitely a lot of food for thought in what you wrote. So I experimented and here are the results. Am I missing something? Or is H just a jerk as it appears. Grrrr! Today I want to file for D and put a full stop at the end of this mess!

Text message exchange at 10am Sunday morning
Essie:"Hi. Hope you've had a relaxing weekend? Do you want to do something fun later today?"
H: "Sorry got too much quoting to do and washing and cleaning sorry if im old and boring! How was your party yesterday?
Essie: "Party last night was good met some lovely people. Enjoy your housework and work"

That totally sucks because its 10am - and if he wanted to see me he could squeeze me in later this afternoon / evening, once he got his work out of the way. Stupid boy. So totally over his mixed messages.

Am I going crazy?

I'm thinking that's it I will blow him off next time he asks to do something with me... I'll be too busy washing my hair!


Me - 29
H - 32
Married 7 years
Separated 09/07