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Then spend that I guess but they don't want me to pay the bills he is responsible for because that is throwing my money away and I really can't afford all of it.
I agree with that 100%. I'm glad it sounds like you've gotten good advice.

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I just hate the idea of it. It is killing me.
It sucks! But we've gone through some hard stuff lately and eventually WE WILL BE BETTER OFF! I know I say that a lot, but I really believe that. By next Christmas, I think your life will be wonderful, b/c you are a wonderful person!!! In fact, I bet you 20 bucks on that, and you know my financial sitch!!! \:\) Karen


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