10/8/05 married 2/28/07 S born spring of 2008 trouble started 7/13/08 W moved out 8/21/08 served D paperwork 11/3/08 confirmed OM
I have done a ton of reading about marriage, affairs, relationships, etc. I am having a terrible time GAL and "moving on" as I wait for my spouse in limbo-land.
I have seen that approx. 25-30% of marriages that are affected by an affair actually stay together and are stronger. Is this because the betrayed spouse stays strong for the marriage and doesn't move on to another man or woman? I can see how easy it would be to get caught up in another relationship to help feel better after being betrayed.
