Another thing to try not to think about, although I did enough thinking about it today. I'm done thinking about it. Like you said kat, I can't worry about it.
Sorry about the movie, kat. I haven't been thinking straight lately.
I love your D!!! She sounds like a total sweetie!!!
Yeah, you say you won't worry, but you know you will! But hopefully a little bit less would be good? Honestly it is a waste to try to analyze their thoughts and stuff. My latest thinking is I don't think they do actually think about stuff too much. In the abstract like if I D, then I'll be happier, but not too much actual nuts and bolts thinking. My L asked H last week at depo what kind of parenting plan he wanted and he said he hadn't thought about it!!!! (This from a guy who wants primary custody). He wants me to move out of our house, but it needs so many repairs before it would sell which doubt H will have after the D. The house would have to be sold at a big loss which wouldn't cover our mortgage, real estate commission, and closing costs. One of my friends told me that too, (that knows H) says he's not thinking with his head, or the right one anyway!!! I kind of have to agree....
I find myself spacing out a bit on my thinking the more stressed I am. I'll admit I'm a tiny bit spacy anyway, but extra stress doesn't help!!! Maybe more GALing is in order??? Karen
