I am enjoying the devotional, it gives me a sense of focus on my thoughts/prayers for the day...
I went today, because I love Dan's grandparents. I have no living grandparents on my side of the family. And I love his aunt and uncle, his uncle and I have always gotten along really well. In fact, his uncle tells me often that he likes me better than his other nieces (Dan's sisters).
It was tough, though, being there but not feeling like I was really a part of things. I played cards with Dan, Uncle Bob (my buddy), SIL, FIL, and my niece. Dan made a point of not wanting me on his team ( ) but he would have done that anyway, he gets annoyed with me when we play pitch if I don't play as well as him...
Anyway I was very helpful, cleared plates at dinner and dessert, talked to everyone, hugged and thanked his grandparents, etc. etc. Other than the fact that Dan and I didn't speak to each other (actually I said something to him a couple times and he either nodded or grunted), it probably looked "normal".
I don't think I will do it for Christmas, though. It is getting difficult to act 'as if' with everyone...
) but he would have done that anyway, he gets annoyed with me when we play pitch if I don't play as well as him...