I'm sorry too!!! I agree with everything Kat said. Yes, and def. tell the kids with both of you there. My H had the talk with the kids when I was out and that's not a good way to do it!!!
I do think you have done everything possible, and you can hold your head up high, that you fought for your marriage and kids and did everything you could. Your H can't do the same. My L was saying eventually my H will have to have guilt over that (I guess unless they're total sociopaths) and no need for you to have any!!! And it really is easier than you think. Sometimes I think once you drop the rope or whatever you want to call it, it's a lot easier and less stressful. ((((Lyn))))
