T2L, thanks for these postings. the second post really has hit me...

A weak person has an affair - check
A person who needs a mirror to tell them who they are has an affair - check
A person with poor coping skills has an affairs- so check
A person who ignores his vulnerabilities has an affair - so so check
A person willing to lower their self standards has an affair - check - especially lowering themselves to garbage level

How true how true

How are you doing today??? check in...thinking about you.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09