Hey lwb, its Jeff, looking at other post, Surviving the Big D stood out because that's were I'm headed. Then what did I see its lwb

I'm reading a number of post here, to gain some insight as to how do I deal with STBX

If I had my way she would disappear from the face of the earth, but I know that's not going to happen and I have to deal with her for the rest of my life.

Does it ever get better lwb ??? I'm always anxious when I'm around her.

M45
W41
M10.75 years
D9, D7, D7, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08