I would never give up on you. I hope you will keep posting here if you like. You know I'm about to D and some others here, and we never give up on each other (our WAS maybe, but not each other).
Ok, need more advice. Keeping in mind that my H is an L and keeps my emails to use against me I guess, here is his email today: i don't understand your reaction to the kids getting evaluated at fsu. we discussed it way more often than ot and unlike you i am telling you about it and involving you...i found out because they called me by mistake. anyway i am concerned you will just not show up with the kids so i will pick them up at 7:45am Tuesday morning(my day) you are still welcome and i encourage you come to the testing and or submit the paperwork. as i said your lawyer indicated that was a great idea. i have no idea why you feel you need to talk to her prior to committing to the testing for your kids but that's your choice. i did not utilize the school system as you voiced your objections to that so again why the opposition? OK, need to respond to that b/c I don't want to have a long heated convo tomorrow in front of the kids. Here's my first draft:
When you gave me the paperwork the other night, I said I would need to discuss it with my attorney. Since that might affect our legal situation, talking to the attorney about that seems reasonable to me. I will check it out Monday and talk to my lawyer and get her legal advice about it. I saw her yesterday and she did say she hadn't agreed to it. She said she wouldn't do that without discussing with me first which she hadn't done. I do appreciate you not trying to do a public school eval. When we had it done before it was almost a full year for their testing and report, and they would prob. have a hard time being unbiased and neutral re: their own school system! Thanks again! Also if I consent to the evaluation and my lawyer agrees to that, no need for you to drive to (my town). I can drive them there no problem. OK, do you think that's ok or any changes. I did avoid the whole I didn't tell him about the OT stuff b/c that's just an outright lie I have already told him several times so realize that's a cheeseless tunnel? Did I leave any others in there or what do you think??? Karen
