It is definately hard when ow steps into this weird, pseudo wife role.. as if she is you or could replace you.. YUCK!

The way I see it, though, is that HE is missing out on a heck of a lot of good family and friend stuff, too. In fact, I like to think that stbx is missing out on a lot more than me..

Maybe that's just denial but, I like to think my life is better and more fun \:\)