Beth..a friend of mine who went thru a similar sitch to mine and really to yours many years ago..her hub was depressed, one of the things he said to her when he left was that he just needed time for him, etc, he spent some time in a mental hospital, it didn't really help him at the time, etc, she walked in love with him, included him with the boys, but I think really just stood and prayed and waited..nothing she did made a difference until he hit the bottom, like Byron said, and reached out to her..

I could see where you would think reaching out would be helpful tho too..but, I think Byron's right really that no one will take the help until they are ready..

Hope you are doing well my friend!

Tawnya


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