I don't have much advice to give you as I feel pretty much in the same place. I too am at the stage where if someone came along I would be ready to date and life is good at the mo but h is still there in the background. It is so hard to understand the whole thing.
I know it is no consolation but just think how far we have both come over the past few months and I truly believe that we will not feel this way forever. I know that neither of us know what is going to happen in our situations and we still hope the outcomes will be what we want. I would say though that time has got us this far... it will work it's magic further I think.
