She also said she was scared of me. I can't understand why...I've never threatened her in any way. I don't yell... Maybe someone can explain.
I don't know. Wish I could help. I am so sorry. Perhaps the sress has just been to much and has both of you worn out until you can't function anymore. Maybe a S would help get you back on your feet emotionally.....both of you. Maybe a new start some day. I hope and pray.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Just be grateful for the good moments and try to let the other stuff run down your back.....but never try to figure her out or you may lose your own mind in the process.
Enjoy the cookies.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I wanted to ask again...why does W say she is scared? I read on another post that WAWs are scared that the LBS will not allow them to leave. That it is due to the pursuit. It this what she is "scared" of?
I read on another post that WAWs are scared that the LBS will not allow them to leave.
That is a new one for me! I have never read that unless there had been some type of abuse, but that is not the case here, so maybe she is just giving you a bunch of b.s. I know that one statement she made has worried you more than about anyother thing she said, so perhaps that is her way of pusing your buttons. Please try not to think about it. She isn't scared of you! If she was scared of you (for real) she would be afraid to tell you that.
Try to rest your mind. You cannot figure her out. I promise you. B/c she is not rational.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
