Very wise advise Kel. I don't know why in the heck my H decided to tell me on Thanksgiving morning. Getting thru that day was one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life. Probably partically why I fell apart so hard yesterday. Anyway, I have realized that Thanksgiving usually comes on a different day every year, so Nov 27th is the day that I will remember as the start of our New Marriage. The day that painful truths were told so that the healing can eventually begin.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
