Sounds about right. It is certainly an evaluation stage. I am glad that he has actually said that it is nice being together, but he is clearly still skeptical at least in terms of specifically committing.
I can wait him out with the R talk at least. This is not an issue for me. If it were up to me, we would go at least 1 month without talking about things. I can do slow and steady. I really can!
By the way tonight H has been pretty sweet. He came up behind me in the kitchen and hugged me. This has not happened since the bomb...
Now I'm home entertaining myself while he plays video games. he has checked in on me a few times to see what I'm doing :).
Jen, thanks for coming out of hiding to post to me. I really appreciate the insight!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!