An affair more than a fantasy - it is a search for identity. Any adult with a strong sense of self does not dirty themselves in such a way to destroy others.
A weak person has an affair. A person who needs a mirror to tell them who they are has an affair. A person with poor coping skills has an affair. A person who ignores his/her vulnerabilities has an affair. A person willing to lower their self standards has an affair.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
