As for the mother of the child....well....her parents are doctors, she is set financially....she has her own house, money in the bank and makes more money than my H....I'm sure she just wants her part of the pie.....I don't totally blame her...it took two of them and yes now she knows he's w OW so it may have ticked her off too....my H didn't see his son for 3 years at all..
I did tell my H last night to take he and I out of the picture...it's 4 children who are hurting....I included his...no..it's not the little boys fault...I have always felt for him there...he has had no father all these years...and now he is forced to get to know his family....very scary for a 9 yr old....my son is having a hard time at 11....
The budget is for him...has nothing to do with me...he wants it so he can take it to court to fight the mother....but I have to write it all out cause it will affect me also...the mother is not suffering at all...we however struggle....now we will struggle more....thanks to her...nothing I can change about it now...nothing at all....it's done....now I have to move on...
My H will have to mend the fences with his kids...I stay out of it....we don't even really talk about him cause it causes too much undo stress....my kids know I will always love their dad...my D21 actually gets mad at me for saying that....she says, "I don't know why"....some day I will be able to explain it better right now too many emotions involved...
I will be as strong as I can but my stomach is in a knot....Christmas will be interesting.....
Thanks Snodderly for being here for me....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
