Well he just told me 20 minutes ago, I could go if I wanted to go. I asked if he was going to my niece's birthday tomorrow (my sis' girl; he went to his sis' girl's party Thursday, I consider them both equally my nieces). He said he wasn't planning to go to niece's party tomorrow (my family)....
Just don't want to be tit for tat but don't want to be a pushover either, making his life easier...
