Great that you've been with your H the past 4 nights. Am on my blackberry now, so didn't see if you posted on your thread. I'll take a look when I get home.
You are right that I can't push or am more likely to get a bad answer. My take on where H is now is that he's 70 percent in the marriage camp, but still having reasonable doubt. I think if we can make it through the New Year with continued pleasant times, we will be much closer. He himself sort of alluded to this with saying he needed to adapt to things, and that after the New Year we could do MC.
Thanks for mentioning that saving an M doesn't have a timeline. I agree. H is always setting deadlines, but I think we are well enough on track that that's OK now.
I am very happy to have this chance, and will do everything in my power to make the most of it and go at H's pace.
Hope you're having a good weekend!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
