Ask me anything you want at any time! In terms of H seeking treatment, maybe it is a personality thing. He's always been the kind who is singleminded about something to the point of obsession. Once his unhappiness was out in the open, he did everything to "fix himself" as he'd put it. This included buying and reading loads of self-help books, taking yoga classes, and eventually the psychotherapist. He knew he wanted to talk to a counselor, so I'd hooked him up with a DB coach. This helped him get on track with exercising, socializing more etc. She told him that he might want to see a therapist, and so he did. As far as I know he's never gotten anti-depressants though.
Does your H realize he is depressed? I assume you haven't talked to him about it, but wondering whether he opens up to you at all? Have you spoken to a DB coach? Do you have any mutual friends who could maybe get through to your H in the way that you can't right now? So sorry you have to deal with that. I know how tough it is.
So just on my way home from errands in town. Have been gone about 4 hours during which time H has texted twice, once just to tell me he's hungry. This is what happens when I give him space!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
