Love cannot be sustained on lies and deception.

Only lust

Lust dissapears and reality sets in.

Guilt and shame appear.

Sometimes remorse follows.

He wants everyone to believe he is happy. He has temporary moments of happiness, until he looks in the mirror occassionally.

My ex has told me he is miserable. Happiness can be found only from within. Not from another person.

My ex has told me that they fight all the time. He has even referred to her as "bimbo".

You are what is important right now.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11