I am so glad that you are getting all of these wonderful signals from your H.
Can I ask you, what do you believe made your H seek treatment and ways to cope with the depression? I know I cannot force my H to get help. I am more curious if there are certain personality types which make one eventually work at getting better versus those which make one abdicate and stay in the misery.
Mine excercises like a fiend, but clearly that is not enough. I know he will need to do more, therapy, possibly medication. Just do not know if he'll ever see that.