No rental charge tomato, and I am reading the devotional every day.
Guys, H doesn't want us to do Thanksgiving as a family. He did, when we talked last month, he wanted us to do all celebrations "as a family", no matter if we separated. But then he didn't go to my family Thanksgiving. So if being the bigger person means I go to every event he ever has for his family and he goes to nothing of mine, where does that leave me? Giving his family the impression that everything is just fine, when it isn't....
Now it sounds like I am being a selfish brat for not going to his Thanksgiving, the way you say it.....