She is correct. That fantasy/living arrangement will wear off. It might take awhile, though.
Let me share with you what my H told me. He said that in the beginning it was exciting, fun, etc. but you come to your senses and the reality is that it is all just an illusion. He hinted twice this year, that it has not been a bed of roses over there.
Just do what you have to do for you and the kids. It is a day to day kind of living. It will take some time but you will get thru this like many of us who have been at the stage you are in now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
