Originally Posted By: Donna...Found
Do you think it was easier to have some sort of "friendship" with him, when the OW fell out of the picture? Doesn't look like my X's gf is going anywhere anytime soon...


I've thought about this, too Donna. I think it is much easier especially when there are smaller children involved. ow in my stich likes to give stbx all kinds of "parenting advice". So, here's the problem - this woman committed adultery with my husband and she is now influencing my child. How can you not be affected emotionally by that??

I've been thinking about what my divorce would look like if the ow didn't still have her claws in.. Things would look very different in my world.. I'm sure of it.