been away for the computer for a few days (I don't go to the site when my H is at the house). I guess that's good as he has spent the last 4 nights over.
I'm sorry to hear about your e-mail episode, but on the other hand, at least it gives you an idea exactly where you are- somewhere in the middle. Maybe closer to being okay, but still not there yet in his mind. I know you want to be in piecing mode, but I am guessing that he isn't ready yet.
It is a positive that he hasn't given up yet, but obviously still isn't ready for recommittment (complete) but is contemplating it with all his actions.
I too wish things would go at my pace in my R, but that isn't how it is happening. Just remember that we are the ones setting deadlines and timelines in our minds, and we need to forget those. Saving a marriage doesn't have a timeline. Divorce does. I know there have been several points along the way of this process where I could have pushed it and gotten the answer that I didn't want. My goal is by hanging in there for the long run I can have a good chance of getting the answer I DO want.
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
