Maybe we should all give up on trying to understand my H?! I guess he remains confused and probably doesn't want to upset the aubergine, and feels like he should try and take care of me at the moment. He probably doesn't know himself what he's doing.
Handsome- you're such a charmer! I loved your new look bedroom. I can totally imagine padding around there in my socks
Lovely- this is a lot more interaction than there's been over the past 2-3 months or so. Something's definitely different, although I don't know what's caused it. I was pleased that he asked me to go for a drink next week- it'll be the first time we've been out on a planned evening since August.
CEO has been to 2 eye doctors and he needs to wait for 3 months now to see what happens to his right eye (he punched himself in it while he was sleeping and now can't see anything out of it clearly). Poor thing- he spent ages on Sunday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday talking to me about how worried he is about it. I'm trying to listen and validate as I guess he doesn't have too many people to discuss it with. I like your theory on why he doesn't like me being upset, and was wondering if there might be a component of being paranoid about girls thinking he's mean. He's told me a couple of times that girls he's been out with thought he was horrible so they just became friends instead of anything romantic, and he has a fragile ego so I wonder if he's sensitive about upsetting people.
We (H and I) exchanged a text last night which is a change. We haven't exchanged texts on a Friday night (it was only one each though) since he left. Friday night was an evening he usually spent with the aubergine and his former colleagues but from what he was saying yesterday he hasn't done that for a couple of weeks. Not that that means anything (but one can only hope)
