Okay......caught up. It's not the son.....it's the wife.....and you would be moving back "home" and that is where son wants to go and it's the wife using S16 as her excuse to stay.
Four nights out of every week apart.....
If she needs a male to feed her ego to build her self esteem etc, etc, etc, ........what is going to happen if you leave her for 4 nights out of every week?
I have to agree with the other women here......I think you need to break it down to her in black and white and explain it like it is. Wouldn't it be so sad if everything was on the very tip of working out and then this move distroyed everything due to lack of communication about all the facts?
Oh well, I've said enough. I think you are so tired of all of it that you are almost ready to walk away yourself. I hope you won't.
Take care, Sandi
P.S. TO PUPPY........I don't think I explained myself well about the WW comment. I never remember you calling me that. I am just sensitive about that term b/c of my own guilt and pain. It hurts to hear us called some of the things that we are called, but it is the truth......and it doesn't feel too freeing.....if you know what I mean. Oh shoot, you know I love ya!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
