As for everyone making such a big deal about the thank you thing...I'd say that's a secondary issue atm.
Well, ain't that the truth!! A lot more has been said about those darn flowers that the fact she may still be clingy to having a "fix" from OM once in a while. Did I just dream I read that? Come on!
Maybe I got behind and lost track, but all I know is that you were talking about making some kind of move that could keep you two apart and it's all b/c of son16? I'll go back and try to catch up....and I don't mean to be making judgments here when I don't know all the facts, but when does a 16 yr old get to make the decisions about a family's move? I know I never had a say about our family moving when I was a kid. Okay....enough about that.
I am concerned about whether or not she is really over this OM. If you still suspect she is getting some kind of emotional fix.......oh sweetie......I am so afraid you are setting yourself up for a big disappointment and hurt. Is it too soon? I don't know. I'm sorry. I'll go back and catch up. I jumped in too soon b/c I was getting .......you know, like Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
