Does MLC contribute to WAW? Infidelity?

[AlexEN]

Sleeper,

Some of these fit the bill and others do not...

I don't know who I am anymore. NO, EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE - SHE FEELS LIKE SHE KNOWS WHO SHE IS NOW AND DIDN'T BEFORE
I want to live a life, not just exist. YES.
I'm all messed up. NO.
It's not you, it's me. NO, IT'S MOSTLY MY FAULT.
I don't want to hurt anyone. YES.
I still want us to be family. YES.
We are getting old. YES.
I want to live before I die. YES.
I think I'm depressed. NO, SHE THINKS SHE HAS IT ALL TOGETHER.
You're trying to control me. SHE'S INSINUATED THAT THOUGH NOT STATED IT OUTRIGHT.
Stop trying to parent me. SAME AS LAST ONE.
I deserve to be happy. YES.

New hair, clothing style, talk of plastic surgery? YES; WANTED BOOB JOB.
Dressing like she did when she was a teenager? NO.
Obsessed with the culture of her adolesence (i.e. the 80's)? NO.
General obsession with appearance? YES.
New friends, activities. NO.
Cut contact with old friends, family, HER CHILDREN? NO.
Spending like a madman? YES!

So, that's why I still don't know if she's MLC or WAW... If it even really matters.

-AlexEN