I should have known you would know more than two languages. My H is from Brussels but is fluent in both French and Flemish. I am fluent in spoken French but my reading/writing leaves a bit to be desired. I can read a very little bit of Flemish.
40 miles per week - I would be able to eat anything I wanted.
Funny you mentioned ballroom dancing. My H offered me classes a few years ago for my birthday (we were to take them together). Sadly, we never got around to it. I have been looking into taking the classes myself. I think it would be fun and I could have an innnocent interaction with a man (they would have to find me a partner, right). Good self-esteem boost and I would love to be able to tell H, "Hey, I finally took those classes you offered me for my birthday."
As for posting, do not wait for experience, just post your support. It feels good to receive no matter who one is or where one is in this process. Besides, you have already given me some great advice/insight. I really appreciate what you said about H maybe already starting to realize he is miserable but reluctant to admit he is wrong. That thought of yours got me out of a near-funk this evening. I find it comforting to think you are right about that. Even if you are wrong, so what? The idea alone has already helped me, so there you go.
