It was interesting today. H made some comment about how in the past I had NO trouble stating exactly how I felt. He said it never stopped you before.

I simply responded by saying to h that I realize that in the past I didnt take your feelings into consideration and that I was working on this area and that it was ok for me to state my opinion if you asked, but that just because I felt one way it didn't mean that I should expect h to conform to my ideals.

This is a 180 for me. I have always been very opinionated and have let h know how I felt, but now it doesn't seem to matter much that h's opinion differs from my own.

After I said that, h was silent. Hopefully he sees me changing in small ways.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"