I think for me Cinders it was the realization that I had to go on and live my life. I couldn't stand idily by and wait for h to come home.
As I grew stronger and more confident in who I was, I didn't dwell nearly as much on worrying what h was up to or what his words all meant.
By me not being cold and resentful I think has brought my h closer and closer. My h has made huge progress as of lately and the more I love unconditionally the closer he is drawn to me.
He is not home, but I am hopeful for the future.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"