Wifey hit what I was going to say. You have been through my sitch. I am where both you and Wifey are. If our spouses want out, LET THEM GO but by God we will not make it easy for them.
I have been told that if we do cooperate, it adds that much more justification to what they are doing. Kind of like "well, my H/W is so agreeable, they must want this too... Must be ok" Do not give them that.
Keep fighting for what is right for you! K!
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