Another wife hit by the bomb #3

[The Wifey]

(((Tawnya)))

Hey honey, I had a couple of R convo's with H over the last weekend and last night. We have to take a step away.

I realized that unless my H plans to pack my things, rent me an apartment, and move everything - that I am in my home to stay. : )

I don't know that this is very DB, but it is something that I feel strongly.

For all of my h's talk about separation, he is still here. I made it really easy for him by moving out for 2 months, but I was absolutely miserable. And did it improve anything in our R. NO! It only made it too easy for him.

You are so right. If he wants you to write anything out of what you want, how about I want to stay married and live up to the vows we declared before God, family & friends.

It is not our job to make it easier for them.