Oh honey. This is the thing. He was an absolute worm. But there is now a little boy that he is obligated to. You are going to have to think long and hard here.
Can you love him and forgive him, and make room for this little boy in your life? Because it sucks, but this little boy is innocent and he didn't ask for any of this either.
Because if you love him, and you can make room for the boy to have some part of your life, then you will have your H and she won't. If you can't allow yourself to think about that right now, its ok.
I know what a damn shock this is. But the worm, um, I mean your husband just said he loved you and is sorry. The ball is in your court now, as I see it.
No matter how much you hate the W, she is now tied to you and your H by that little boy. And yes he did this awful thing.
I advise you to pray on this. I don't know what I would do in your place and I won't tell you what to do, either.
In any case, I am here for you honey.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
