The next stage, maybe

[MsMelancoly]

Hi Julia, Just wanted let you know I'm reading along. You have been given some excellent advise.

My guess, the olbivious, is that your H is afraid of you and afraid you are mad at him. Which, by the way you have every right to be! I believe fear is guiding his childish actions.

Essie's advise is right on spot, w/Jody's advise. (I actually thanked my H for making the decision to D). Strange isn't it all this.

You are doing gggreat, keep the PMA going!!!! I love it that his friends posted you a message!