Btw, talk about strange, I forget to mention that STBX is still treating me nicely, it's been over a week now! Whenever we interact she actually has a friendly, almost affectionate tone in her voice. We actually speak to each other like normal people! She even responds like she's interested...and I thought Halloween was over! This is really scary stuff...hmm, how will she pull the rug out from under me this time? Ooh, so cynical