Thank you for the kind words! It is a pleasure talking with you, too.
I do not think I have any real talent for running. I am not putting myself down, I just don't think it is something at which I was born to excel. It's okay. It makes me feel better and look better. I am more of a born dancer. I danced for years and years. But that is something I have had a hard time getting back into. Not a lot of ballet classes for adults (who are not professionals).
I would love to think you are right about my H. You may very well be right, I just have to learn to have patience and faith. I am not very talented at either of those things.
There are others here who know about Retrouvaille, I think Techguy knows about it. I can tell you that in French it means to find something again. In everyday French it is used when one wants to suggest a meeting point after a temporary separation. Like, "Let's meet in an hour at the park." I know that's not the sort of information you were looking for, just my goofy humor.
Also, I think it shows a lot of insight that you recognize that you need to be more vocal with positive comments to your W. All those little discoveries can eventually add up to a lot of positive changes.