I have read along your thread since the beginning. I didn't have much to say because you were doing so well but now, I'm going to have to say I'm with Jack on this one.
WTH happened to Mr. Confident? The man that was willing to take it on the chin for his family? Do you honestly think these changes in your W are permanent or do you believe that the OM's influence is just turning her inside out? She is not herself, you said that. She is in MLC - crazy, selfish, spinning yars to anyone that will listen, turning you into the bad guy in order to justify her own adulterous, ridiculous actions.
Mike, I understand that sometimes enough is enough. I had enough and decided that I couldn't handle it anymore. I had my own reasons for that. You have to find your reasons. If the lies she is spreading that your friends all know are lies are pushing your buttons then that is sad. If your reason is deeper and more about protecting yourself and your kids, then go for it.
I'm just saying, please examine your motives carefully. Look at them with only how they affect you and the kids. Then make a move or stand still - your choice.
Much support to you Mike.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!