T2L, we made it through this first holiday. You had no contact and I had too much! 2 weeks NC..it seems shorter but you are hanging tight and we are proud of you. Yes I am thankful for my girls and my friend from CA and my other friends on this board. I don't know how I would have made it by.
Well H took the girls to breakfast this morning and then came back and picked me up to take our D to the airport. We made small talk and I was singing to music in the car just having a grand DB time! Well when D15 gets out of the car to pick up her friend at the house, H says to me I know who send the e-mail to you and the follow up phone call. It is an ex friend of OW who hates her (geeh why would anyone hate her), and is friends with her old BF, that is the only one we saw that night, it is not an employee. So I said well they knew quite a bit about work and OW schedule so don't be sure it is not a combination of stuff. Then H says I know you hate OW but that person had no right to contact you and they are not your friend. I said, I guess I am not the only one that hate OW, oh well no surprise there, but everyone that knows OW says she is a black widow type that suck men dry and then dumps them. H says oh that person just hates OW so she will say anything. Then I drop a little truth bomb on H. I said well its funny I was out a few weeks back at a bacholorette party and met a group of women that knew her also and they said the same thing about her. I don't think you know her as well as you think you do. So H says why where you talking about her and I said, well you know how it is I was drinking and it just came out...and then I laughed and gave him a little punch in his arm. (same excuse he uses when he drinks). H looked shocked, I got out of the car and said take care of yourself and watch your back. Gave him something to think about.
And I am curious how everyone else did? take care...
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
