Hope you all had a nice Thanksgiving. Mine was relaxing kids and I ate way too much and took long naps and watched movies. Surprisingly no crying tomorrow. I wasn't too sad either. A little irritated that my H would give up spending all this with us. I told D17 that I would never give this up to be able to spend this with you guys. She says mom, I am starting to not care because I realize he doesn't care about us.
H was not there as I am in plan B of SAA(book). H did not call kids the night before or on Thanksgiving as I'm sure he wants me to pay for it so he's taking it out on my kids.
He did however send a text page to daughters phone at almost midnight saying hope you guys had a good day. That's it. What a jerk! He didn't even say hello or I love you or even a message to son.
Still staying dark(no contact), tomorrow is 2 weeks.
Trying to stay busy and GAL and do things I like. Think I'm going to undertake some painting next week as I am thinking way too much.
Anyways, we're up and running over here tidying up and getting ready for Christmas. We decorated the tree and house and had fun.
Hope you are all doing well.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
